Confident Relationships
- Meisha Thrasher
- Dec 4, 2021
- 2 min read
Updated: 3 days ago
None of us is without the need for improved relational skills. Imperfect humans have room to grow, and when we accept the fact that skills contribute to our ability to thrive, we will embrace the challenge to grow our skills on purpose. That is what therapy and support groups do, grow skills on purpose.
Here is a brief look at a group presentation about confident relationships that we hope encourages your motivation!
When couples are newly getting to know each other, the pace and depth of connection can vary — what feels light and playful for some may feel deeply intimate for others. Focus and curiosity are beautiful starting points, consistent feels better than abstract outreach for most bodies, but it’s mutual consent that anchors the heart, as we feel safe the layers of trust and commitment gradually build — like adding sweetness, one layer at a time, to a shared cake of connection.
Confident relationships require skill:
Self-Awareness – Recognizing your own needs, boundaries, and emotional patterns builds the foundation for healthy connection.
Mutual Trust – Open communication, reliability, and vulnerability create a space where both people feel safe and valued.
Intentional Growth – Ongoing effort to resolve conflict, deepen understanding, and support each other’s evolution strengthens the bond of trust over time.
Likewise, limitations like insecure mood regulation, blame, and defensiveness disrupt relationships and deserve CARE Partnership when we can not alter these behaviors on our own, or when we avoid hard conversations because they feel heavy, scary, or ineffective.
Start with a deeper conversation about these commitment goals — as a destination where both people feel seen, respected, and empowered to grow, which end-game are you most interested in?
💞 1. Traditional Commitment
Focused on long-term exclusivity, shared goals, and often formal milestones (like marriage or cohabitation).
🌱 2. Intentional Growth Commitment
Partners agree to actively grow together, emphasizing emotional intelligence, feedback, and personal development.
🔁 3. Flexible/Fluid Commitment
Prioritizes open communication and mutual adjustment. Commitment may evolve over time based on life changes and needs.
💬 4. Process-Based Commitment
Instead of committing to a fixed outcome, partners commit to ongoing dialogue, checking in about needs, boundaries, and shared direction.
💖 5. Soulful or Spiritual Commitment
Rooted in a shared sense of purpose, values, or spiritual connection — not always tied to traditional roles or timelines.
💫 6. Purpose-Driven Commitment
Partners align around a cause, mission, or legacy they want to build — their bond deepens through shared impact.
If you need support, don't be slow about accessing the care you deserve.
